Going on dates, so much have been written about this subject. should you pay? how to avoid a job interview kind of questions? should you go for the kiss?
It seems like things are only getting complected, in their latest article , Elitedaily.com share with us 3 tips that real women give to what can make a a first date into a glorious success.
1. Pay for the first date.
It’s 2017. We get it. Yes, women are still fighting for equal rights and minimizing the pay gap, but that doesn’t mean all of us want to forget how to be treated like a lady.
We want you to show us that chivalry really isn’t dead. If a woman is asked to go on a date, do you honestly want her acting like your roommate by paying for half or all of the bill?
At the core, women still want to feel protected, regardless of whether or not she’s a #bossbabe. Women want to be the boss of their own life, not of yours or another potential suitor.
Couldn’t agree more about that, even with all our progress – at the core women want to feel she is a women and that she is being taken care of. if money is tight just try and take her to not so expensive place that wont break your wallet.
2. Genuinely listen to us.
If the conversation ends with “how was your day?” then you are missing a lot of opportunity here. That’s a pretty basic question since you’re likely to ask the Amazon Prime delivery person the same thing.
When men don’t elaborate on topics that are clearly important to us, it shows women that you are not listening. And if you’re not listening, what are you doing when we’re sitting across from you?
We understand you’re not our girl friends, but is it that hard to follow up on subjects we just spent 27 minutes talking about?
If a woman goes off on a tangent about something specific, pay attention. More often than not, it means the thing she was talking about is super duper important.
That’s another great point, a lot of guys making the mistake of going on and on about themselves, thinking that build an attraction.. and that’s very far from the truth.
Try this ratio: 80% listening and 20% talking, ask questions, ask questions regarding the things she told you – show real interest in her – that’s what build an attraction.
3. Be empathetic toward other people.
I was once on a date with a man who did not understand the concept of non-profit organizations trying to help kids in need. I, on the other hand, am a marshmallow inside and cannot stand the thought of children suffering in any way.
But he argued that once people were born into a negative environment, they were a lost cause.
Guys, don’t do that.
Nothing will pull on our heartstrings more than us knowing you have a greater understanding of humanity and that you take the initiative to help other people who are less fortunate than you are. It’s a selfless act that will never go out of style.
Women love a man who can step outside of himself for the greater common good because it shows you are likely to be compassionate and empathetic in other areas of your life, too.
Women pay close attention to how you carry yourself during the date. they look at the small things – just like you treat people around you. if you being rude to the waitress – you are likely to be rude to her as well at some point.
Treat others with respect and you will score some points with her as well.
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